Friday, February 25, 2022

Catch up

I'm not sure what all we did the week before... lots of weather watching, and school, and doctor appointments. :)
Bob got the girls a few new floor puzzles, so of course it makes total sense to get out every single puzzle we own and use them as carpet.
Silly little Miriel who doesn't want to go to bed.  Instead she wants to be a unicorn taco. 
Thursday was another snowstorm... and another snow day.  And another day of me sitting on the couch doing as little as possible so that we wouldn't have to go to the hospital in a blizzard.  Cecily is digging cats out of plaster balls, Cadence is rocking a stocking cap that, depending on her attitude, made her look like a little hoodlum or a cancer patient. 😝
We had about 2 gallons of sap in the fridge- it's still early and still too cold for good runs.  But we boiled it down on the stove... well, simmered all day, so we could make some room in the fridge. It's so good. 

Then Friday morning I woke up at 5:15 with contractions.  woot.  Thankfully, it wasn't snowing, the roads were clear, Mom made it to our house, Jessica (my doula) made it to the hospital, my favorite midwife was on call, and 5 hours later Perrin arrived after a smooth and uncomplicated delivery.  Praise God.  (also, why do I worry so much?) 

So we were pretty sure on his first name, because neither of us liked the others first choice. At all. haha.  Perrin was on both of our short lists, it's from Bob's favorite book series that he convinced me to read in college. (I read all 14 of them... and not just because I liked Bob. haha.) We were waffling on it though because they just started making a tv series of the books- and who wants to be the people who name their kid after a tv show... it's kind of niche though, so hopefully it'll be more of an 'oh that's different' name to most of the people of our general acquaintance. :P  But middle name was still iffy so when we skyped the girls we asked them which option they liked best.  They chose Robert.    
We stayed 48 hours because short-ish labors don't allow for two full doses of antibiotics for GBS... so frustrating, because I was negative in December and then positive a few weeks ago.  Oh well.  Little squish didn't mind.   
My parents had the girls all weekend and took them to church on Sunday... sounds exhausting.  😂  We got home a little bit before they came back from church... the girls were so excited.  Also, Dad is a baby whisperer.  
Quite pleased.
We have to set timers some times so they all get an equal turn....
Little brudder..... baby peh-win.
The girls had one more day off school Monday for presidents day, then it was back to real life.  Woot.  Bob has been getting them ready for school since I'm up half the night (ugh.  I hate cluster feeding, no matter how necessary and normal it is.  And I don't enjoy the newborn stage all that much.)  And they've all been pitching in with housework and laundry... why do I have a picture of my washing machine?  Well, when you don't want to go down stairs but you can't remember what setting to tell the girls to put the machine on, you have them take a picture.  :D  What did we do before smartphones?  :P 


 So yeah.  Lots of adjusting this week.  And not a lot of sleep. But I feel so much better than I have since oh, last June, that I have to keep reminding myself that all I should be doing is sitting and resting.😋 It's a good problem to have. 

Blessings.

Monday, February 21, 2022

Friday, February 11, 2022

February so far

At the end of January, a few of the kids in the 4th grade Orff ensemble got to be the "class" in a teacher workshop at the IL music educators conference.   I drove Cecily and Lincoln there (so funny... they have to make sure that people know that they are cousins, not friends, and definitely not gf/bf ha).

It was really cool to observe.  The teachers/presenters were obviously very passionate about what they do, and the kids responded to it just as much as the other educators.  Cecily was supposed to play the cymbal on the off-beat, which made me laugh... AC kids are not good with the off beat, we just don't hear it that often.  :D  

I have zero brain cells left and zero energy.  I don't think I have ever experienced that end of pregnancy burst of nesting energy people talk about.  All I want to do is sit on the couch or sleep.  I've tried to work on finishing some sewing projects because that doesn't require much physical effort and it makes me feel like I'm not being lazy, but my brain is so scrambled that I do ridiculous stupid things like slice my best tape measure into four pieces without even realizing it.  *sigh* Alas, poor tape measure, you've been good to me since Mom bought me my first sewing kit...😥
So this was a kind of cool/fun project.  I got this kit for Christmas a few years ago and have been working on it very slowly.  I finished the quilting/embroidery part last fall and bound it last week.
It was somewhat frustrating because embroidery and quilting are very different- the back of embroidery projects don't have to look perfectly pretty, and quilts do look nice.  For this, the embroidery was the quilting and they didn't really give much instruction on how to hide knots, or how to make the stars look nice on the back side too.  I kind of gave up and just made sure the knots were hidden and didn't worry about the back being a perfect mirror of the front.  Also I used metallic thread, which looks cool, but was awful to stitch with.  There are a few wonky stitching lines I may fix eventually, but... done is good enough for now. :) 
Matt and the boys invited us to come play and eat pizza with them on a Saturday evening. 
The girls thought the Johnny Tractor farm track was pretty cool...
Miri was busy fixing a car.  :)  So many boy toys... they aren't used to such things.  Also, she was wearing pj's as clothing because I just don't care right now.  :P
Jack is such a good reader already... hooray for Scrooge McDuck. 
We don't have any remote controlled vehicles at our house... 😄
And then we finally got some snow to play in!! Well, they played. I watched from the garage, out of the wind.  It got us three days off from school, which was fun. 
They were pretty sure they were going to tunnel all the way down to the road. ha. 
Miriel was very helpful with her shovel.
I don't know if there's a name for these drifts that form on the roof- they're slightly ominous, but the snow was pretty light so when they would randomly break off while you were underneath it wasn't too bad. 
Miriel decided that she loved the snow.
She's also fond of this little corner inside.  :D
Miri: Mom, Cadence made a BIG mess!
Cadence is clearly upset about it too...
The piles at the end of the road from the snow plow are their favorite.
She was the last one that wanted to come in and was having so much fun... and then was bouncing off the walls.  Me: Miri, do you find the cold invigorating? Miri: Yes, I find it in my pants! haha... um... ok.... :P
They made a blizzard inside one day too.
We used a pattern book and cut out some really pretty snowflakes! 
And worked on Valentine's for their class parties.  (I'm trying to stay ahead of the game just in case baby comes.)
We've had a few warmer days, so we got the taps out early too!  (Next week should be good, this week was still a little bit cold.)
They are getting to be very capable little maple tappers. 
There was of course much arguing over taking turns with the hammer and hanging the bags and buckets. And I am slightly irritable and don't have a lot of patience...
Then our feet got cold and the battery on the cordless drill died before we were done.  Figures.  But at least the pictures look idyllic, right?
I took the girls to the farm for a very quick visit after school.  We needed to drop off valentines, and a finished quilt, and more taps so Dad can tap his walnut trees (I really want to try walnut syrup!). (Also he's basically still a kid and has a stronger back than I...)
So many of her favorite things- trains, singing stuffed animals, puzzles, oh my! 
Oh silly little girl- usually she sleeps pretty well.  She doesn't fight going to bed and sleeps until after the older girls leave for school.  Except last night/morning she was up wandering around at 5am.  I put her back in bed, and then she was up again at 6am, looking at a book on the couch.  So I put her back in bed with her book and she slept until 10. 
When I was in high school my good friends and their family went (back) to Papua New Guinea as missionaries.  Then when Liz came home to finish her senior year in the states, she brought me a lap-lap, the traditional wrap skirt the women wear.  I've kept it ever since because it's so cool, but I wasn't really sure what to do with it.  It's not something you just get rid of!  (I'm sorry children, I promise that someday I will death clean.)
But then I saw some really cool whole cloth quilts on pinterest and found some PNG style fabric for a backing and turned it into a small quilt!  And it will hopefully get more use than it did for 20 years stashed in my closet.  (Randomly, for being such a small out of the way country, I know three families that are currently missionaries there and it will be a good reminder to pray for them.) 
So yes, I have no physical energy, but sitting at the sewing machine doesn't take a whole lot of effort.  I'm down to one lap sized quilt top in my unfinished quilted projects pile, woot woot.  Maybe I'll get it done.... maybe it will just sit there for another few years while I build up the pile again.  :D  

We did all of our Valentine's early this year, just in case.  And because I'm just tired.  My pelvis is trying to fall apart and my muscles think they need to cramp and I'm extra irritable and yet I can't say I'm all that excited to go through the newborn stage again (or any of it really if I'm totally honest....woot).  Lots of people warned me that the adjustment to four was rough, and it was hard but not overwhelming, so now, of course, I'm stressing that five will be the straw that breaks the camel's back. And my doula moved too far away and I had to find a new doula, and there's a chance the hospital won't even allow two support people, and some days feel like terrible, horrible, no good, very bad, days and the world is at sixes and sevens and why the house hasn't fallen down around our ears long ago is beyond me.         

Anyway.  :) 
Blessings.

Sunday, February 06, 2022

Books we read in 2021

 I pulled these screen shots from Goodreads, so they may not be in the exact order that we read them.  :)

Goodreads also tells me that somehow I managed to read 39 books to the girls and 17 books to myself for a total of 56 books last year- not sure how that happened.  haha.   Actually, it helped that Miri went through a phase of taking a few minutes to fall asleep for naps/bedtime and I would hang out next door in my room and read until she went to sleep.  Once she decided that she didn't need naps anymore, my reading time nosedived.  I'm sure I won't be able to read that much this year! 

I apparently started off the year on a Georgette Heyer kick... haha.  

1-5. Devil's Cub, Cousin Kate, Black Sheep, The Reluctant Widow, The Masqueraders.  Why do I like Georgette Heyer regency romance novels so much?  Well, they're witty, well written, and more situational comedy than "romance."  They are older books so they are very clean.  There's generally very little romance involved until the very end of the book (like, the last page) and therefore are in a class above the general christian-romance-unrealistic-emotion-porn.  

6. Charity Girl- Like I said... I was on a Georgette Heyer kick. :)
7. Tuck Everlasting- I was looking through lists of good read aloud books and saw this classic that I'd never read.  I didn't read it to the girls, but I enjoyed it.  It is interesting to think about what immortality in a mortal world would really mean.
8. Tonight on the Titanic- Guess who picked this one, hehe.  Emmy really wanted me to read this Magic Tree House book to every one.  It's short, thankfully.  :D 
9.  White Fox- So Emmy picked this one too, I think she just liked the cover and wanted to get it from her book order.  It is apparently a Chinese bestseller.  I was.... unimpressed.  The story was weird and didn't have much of a plot, it was far too long, and far too many characters died sudden violent deaths.  Maybe something was lost in translation?  I was glad to finish it and I refuse to read any of the rest of the series. ha.
10.  Bridge to Terabithia- another YA classic that I had never read.  I liked it, I'm not sure I would have liked or really understood the ending if I had read it in middle school. 
11. Through Gates of Splendor- I couldn't remember if I'd read this before (it was on Bob's shelf).  I think I maybe had, or another book about the same events.  Anyway, anything by Elisabeth Eliot is worth a read.
12.  One and Only Ivan- This was a sweet story about a Gorilla, based on a true story.  The girls really liked it and it was fun to read.
13.  Hitty, Her First Hundred Years- I actually read this twice, first to see if the girls would enjoy it and then again to the girls.  It's about a doll named Hitty, starting from when she is first carved, and follows her adventures and various owners around the world and over the course of a century.  We all really liked it.  Sometimes older books can go over their heads a little bit, but there was enough funny situations that it kept their interest.

  14.  The Count of Monte Cristo- Favorite book ever.  I have no idea how many times I've read it; this time I just read the good old Penguin Classic version- it's the shortest abridgment that I own (I might have three different versions.... yeah.... it's good!!). 
15. Cotillion- oh hey look, another Georgette Heyer.  :D
16-21. The Josefina books- I read these to the girls when they inherited a Josefina doll.  Can't go wrong with AG's historical fiction. 
22.The Door in the Wall- I remember reading this book in grade school or middle school. It's a great story set in medieval England, it was a pretty quick read and I liked it as much as I did as a kid.
23.  The Year of the Bloody Sevens (no cover picture for some reason)- I think Bob was getting tired of overhearing us read so many "girly" books, because he suggested this one.  It's definitely a 'boy' book and definitely older (1960's).  It's about a boy who is traveling on foot from Virginia to Kentucky in 1777 to meet up with his Dad and most of his traveling companions die gruesome deaths by Indian attack and then he almost gets killed by Indians.  Yeah.  Haha.  I probably would have read it and the author's other books when I was a kid if they had been in our libraries, but I'm not sure if I would choose them as a read aloud again.  😝 

24-26. Fellowship of the Ring, The Two Towers, The Return of the King- I reread the Lord of the Rings because it had been a very long time.  Since college at least.  Still just as good, and definitely worth reading once if you've never read them before.  Tolkien is the best. 
27-32. The Kirsten books.  I read these to the girls over the summer since we were doing pioneer type things.  Even though I read these several times as a kid, it always surprises me how they don't sugar coat some of the harder aspects of frontier life.
33.  The Little Prince- I read this to the girls because it is a classic and is recommended a lot.... I had never read it before. It was... ok.  I'm not sure if it's a translation issue, or if it's just not our style, but I wasn't overly impressed and thought it was kind of weird.  The girls weren't super excited about it either.  But now we can say we've read it.  :)

34.  Sewing Without Mother's Help- What's a year in reading without a random really old sewing book??  hehe.  I was looking for some motivation to teach the girls to sew more things.  Not that we did, but it was inspiring.  Maybe this summer I won't be dealing with nausea and we can do more sewing/life skills projects.
35.  The Silmarillion- If you're a LOTR nerd, you have to read the Silmarillion.  It's less of a story than the Hobbit or LOTR and more the history and legends of middle earth.  It's good stuff.  And where Miri's name came from.
36. Mrs. Piggle Wiggle- We took this to read on vacation.  I remember it from grade school- it's still just as zany and funny.   The girls thought it was hilarious. 
37. The Thorn Birds- I forget where I heard about this book.  It was an international bestseller back when it was published and apparently very controversial because of it's critique of Catholicism.  It was very well written, but literally anything that can go wrong in the character's lives over three generations of an Australian family does go wrong.  So unless you like slightly depressing books.... haha...  I wouldn't suggest rushing out to read it.  :)
38. A Girl of the Limberlost- after I went to Gene Stratton Porter's house this summer I had to reread my favorites of hers.  They're just so good.  :)   This one is probably one of her most read books, for good reason, and I love it.  It's about a girl who collects moths and butterflies in the Limberlost swamp and sells them to finance her education, and of course strengthens her faith and finds purpose and love at the same time. 
39-44.   The Kaya books- Since we read about a pioneer, I figured it would be good to read about the early American west from a different perspective.  Haha.  Or just because I have most of the old AG book series and it was sort of the same time period.

45. Freckles- another favorite Gene Stratton Porter book, this one is about a young boy who guards the valuable trees in the Limberlost swamp. He grew up in the city so you get to learn all about the plants and animals along with him.
46.  The White Flag- This was a Gene Stratton Porter book that I had not read before.  I enjoyed it, although it was less about nature than any of her other books that I have read. It was also the most melodramatic book!  The ending was... crazy.  Hehe.  :D  But yes, you should read all of her books.  :P
47. Moths of the Limberlost- Oh hey, another GSP book.  A slight departure since this is not a novel; it's her observations and studies and anecdotes of the different Moths that she collected in the swamp.  It's definitely not a dry, scientific type book and it was more fun to read than I thought it would be and it made me want to become an entomologist and raise caterpillars in the house. (only briefly, the urge passed pretty quickly.)  
48. Morning Face- Another GSP that is not a novel, instead it's a collection of poems/songs stories that she wrote for her Granddaughter (who was nicknamed "Morning Face").  It's sweet and light and fun.
49. The Indian in the Cupboard- The girls loved this book.  It's so fun to imagine your toys coming to life, and the situations Little Bear and Boone get into are just funny...
50. Reflections on the Psalms- C.S. Lewis is just great.  But it takes me forever to read his books because I have to stop and think about everything.  :)  Especially since my brain is essentially scrambled eggs anymore.  I liked how he approached the Psalms from a more scholarly, Jewish perspective than the typical Christian perspective of applying meaning retroactively.  Since the psalms were important to Jewish worship and culture long before Christ came along.  Good stuff.

51. Across the Wide and Lonesome Prairie- I read this to the girls because it's an Oregon Trail diary (fictional).  It's harder to read a diary style book aloud, but we all liked it.  Once again, it was a lot more gritty/realistic than I remember when I read it way back in Middle School.  :P 
52. Wind in the Willows- Ok, I know this is a classic that everyone 'should' read at some point, but I just don't really like it.  Parts of it are funny, parts of it are just plain weird.  Like, why are there anthropomorphic animals interacting with humans and driving horse carts and cars?  It just doesn't make sense... it's like the author can't decide if it's just for fun, or if it's social commentary on British society. The girls liked the funny parts with Toad, but the rest was just meh. 
53.  The Borrowers- This is another fun book I remember reading long ago.  Who doesn't want to read a book about little people who live under the floors and in the walls of regular size houses?  So much scope for the imagination.  :D  The girls thought it was pretty cool, and they got me the rest of the book series for Christmas so I can read it to them... haha....
54. Person of Interest- this is one of Bob's books that he thought I would like.  It's written by a man who was a cold case detective about his 'investigation' of Christianity and how he came to believe in Christ.  So, in the same vein as "Case for Christ," etc.  The whole book followed his cold case solving process; each chapter he would illustrate his method using an actual murder case he had solved, then use the same method and apply it to Christianity.  Since I haven't really ever doubted the historicity or truth of Christianity these were probably my favorite parts of the book.  I did really like how he said he looked at the 'fallout' of Christ and how He influenced so many different spheres in the world.  For instance, if you looked at all of the great and famous art since the crucifixion and only at the art, never read a Bible, you could recreate the entirety of the gospel stories just from the existing art and paintings alone. Which is cool.
55. From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler-  The girls and I liked this one.  It's about a brother and sister who run away from home for a week and live in the Metropolitan Museum of Art. They liked that they slept in a famous antique bed and had to take baths in the fountain.  :P
56. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever- we read this every year because it's the best. 

I'd love suggestions for good books that would appeal to girls ages 5-10... we'll probably try and reread the Little House books again at some point, but I also like variety. :)

Blessings.